في هذه الأيّام, [جم] [نو لونجر] مكان باردة مظلمة حيث ال [بودبويلدر] يضخّ حدائد. قد عامل بعض هو بما أنّ آخر مكان أن يتصاحب. هكذا, هنا موقعة أن ركّز على في واحدة موضوع شعبيّة - كيف أن يلتقط فوق بنات في [جم]?
شيء أولى أولى, قبل أن يتحدّث أنت إلى بنت في [جم], أنت ينبغي قدّمت الحالة. يحلّ وخطة حاسمة. ب يتمّ هكذا, يعرف أنت كيف أن يقدّم وخداع بنفسي قبل أن أنت تنفّذ ك مهمة خطة [تو دت] ه.
هنا 5 يقارب أشياء أن يفتّش ونفذت قبل أنت هدفك ممكنة:
- فحصت إن هو يتلقّى حلقة على ه عرس إصبع. إن هو يتلقّى, آسفة, بعد ذلك واحدة. ذهبت إن أنت بعد تريد أن يذهب ل يزوّج إمرأة, بكلّ وسيلة, إلى الأمام, غير أنّ تأكّدت أنت يتلقّى ماذا هو يأخذ.
- أنت تتلقّى عين اتّصال مع ه أحيانا? يحبّ بعض شدادات أن يقبع أو أننت عندما يرفع وزن ثقيل. Don’t do this trying to get her attention. Doing this will just get you a weird look, rather than an admiration look from her. Don’t spread your both arms wide unnecessarily showing how “huge” or muscular you are.? Don’t try to impress her with the so called Imaginary Lat Syndrome.
- Don’t give advice unless it is needed. Women appreciates advice, but only when it comes in a right time. If you do it in the flirtatious manner, it can be uncomfortable. If you give her an impression that you are an expert, she definitely will not mind to listen.
So after learning the 5 cues and 5 Don’t, let me share a case study with you on how this can be done.
Case Study
A babe is struggling to use a machine. She probably looks at the instruction stuck there trying to figure out how to adjust the seat. Now, you can walk up and offer your gentleman’s help. Remember to smile but make sure you have brushed your teeth that morning. Kneel down and say, “This seat always stuck all the time. Let me try to help you.”
She will probably look at you now. After adjusting the seat and show her how to work out using that machine. No worry, even if you yourself also don’t know how to use that machine, just show her. Who cares at that critical point of time? She probably doesn’t have a clue how the heck the machine works.
Now, if everything goes fine, spend half an hour with her. Ask her questions and listen. A man who listens is always a better choice. After shower, you can offer to buy her a drink or meal.
Disclaimer: I personally have not tried the above methods. Again, use them at your own risk. Need more tips, check out some of the “unusual” pick up lines you may want to use at gym - Top 10 Pick Up Lines For Girls or Guys At Gym.
Have fun and all the best.
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hyperX // Jan 10, 2009 at 1:19 pm
About checking the ring, most of the time, there are different meaning for wearing ring at different finger, so just beware for girls that wearing a wedding ring.
Tom Parker // Jan 10, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Gotta agree with you on not interrupting girls mid-set. This would really annoy me if the tables were turned and I was interrupted mid-set.
dpegasus // Jan 12, 2009 at 11:36 am
How about a girls on guys list? not fair you only do it for the guys … :p
Jessie // Jan 13, 2009 at 1:27 am
If her eyes focus on the floor, the mirror or whatever except you, the message is clear - nope, she is not interested in you.. <– I find this so true and so hilarious! Good post!
Adrian C // Jan 15, 2009 at 9:59 am
I think the best time to talk to a girl is when they are outside the gym (meaning as they are about to make their way there or back to their cars) or if they are waiting at the lounge area. Besides, that - I think any conversation in the gym area would be a disruption. Nowadays, the girls have iPods … how to talk to someone wearing earphones?!
asithi // Jan 20, 2009 at 11:46 am
I second the eye contact part. If they are looking at anything but you, then they are not interested. And please don’t stare, that gives us this weird creepy feeling that sometimes can ruin part of our workout.
As for the earphones, maybe they don’t want conversation. That is the reason why they are wearing earphones.